We all know that like charges repel, opposites attract. Right? Well, think again. It’s not quite so in the case of people. “Birds of a feather flock together” and true enough, because you are the company you want for yourself. Choose to be positive in situations. Choose to accept responsibilities. Choose to steer positive thoughts and vibes into your life. Take all of your heart and mind, body and soul..and master yourself! Once you do that, rest assured you will feel there is positivity flowing in from all sides, Says Hirav Shah, Opinion Leader, Thought Guru, Business Coach, Entrepreneur & Strategist.
Of course, some people are really lucky that way to have good people already swarming their lives. They can feel the energy around them. But hey, only a teeny-weeny bit of people get luck to favour them! The rest, make luck work for them. So fill your life with all the good things you find. Stop cribbing. Positive is what you see in people, positive is what you choose to do. Choose to decline the negative (people or even thoughts) whenever possible. After all, they say, positive people always find ways to be positive, no matter what.
How To Surround Yourself With Good People?
Good people aren’t saints, or at least they don’t have to be. The good people you’re looking for are positive, happy people that enrich your life. They can be family members,friends,coworkers or acquaintances. They are people that will inspire you to be a better person, provide you with motivation to achieve your goals, empower you to make the changes you need to succeed and cheer on your success and achievements, Opines Hirav Shah.
But How To Surround Yourself With Them?
1.By Acknowledging Your Self Worth
Before you can find others to support you, you have to support yourself.
So many people struggling with self-worth don’t realize, the root of confidence stems from being surrounded by people who encourage that way of thinking. The cliche that you’re a reflection of the five people you spend the most time with, is true. And what’s worse, until you become aware of these external factors having a negative impact on your life, you’ll remain in a vicious cycle that’s both unfulfilling and toxic.
The most important thing you can do is believe you’re enough. Wholeheartedly.
You don’t need another degree, another accolade, or praise from your boss or media outlets. You’re already worthy just by being yourself.
When you have an unyielding conviction in yourself, people sense this. They recognize your strengths and the value you bring because you’re already confident in yourself. They trust you.
It’s not easy to get to this place, and it takes a tremendous amount of courage to walk your truth.
But don’t falter, no matter what. You were always good enough, and you will always be good enough.
2. By Saying Goodbye To Negativity
Everyone has those colleagues who are constantly in turmoil or have serious drama, the ones who will never manage to elevate themselves. Far worse is that they can’t help but try to bring you down right along with them.
Life is hard enough – we don’t always win, and there will always be obstacles and naysayers along our path to success. During those times, nothing feels better than having someone you can share your fears and doubts with: friends and mentors that not only listen, but also cheer you on to be the best you can be. “Get back in there and do better! You can do it!” They give you energy and help you propel forward.
Find and focus on relationships with those who can share their wins and positive vibes and help you realize that you can do the same. Life is too short for the negativity. Give your life the permission to shine…
3. Location Matters
To catch a fish, you need to go by the river…says an old saying.
Go where the right people are.
Go where good people are.
If you hang around bikers in some bar infested with alcohol, you ‘ll get a biker vibe.. If you wish, a higher vibration , then hang out where people with higher vibration hang out.
Location matters. If you were to go to a dark alley, you’ll most likely find negative people. Try positive places like Youth events, charities, classes. Indulge in a hobby you love, chances are, you’ll find people just like you! It’s easier to be positive around people, who are in the same page as you!
Be the Change…
Love Life- Loud and Clear
4. Vibe Matters
We’ve all heard it – Your vibe attracts your tribe. It’s basically, the energy you put out in the world directly reflects on the energies you receive, and that you are open to receiving.Try to build a group and accumulate positive energies around you.
So, now you know how to surround yourself with good people and yes, indeed,being surrounded by good people is always beneficial.
Meanwhile,you have all those qualities you need, to be a good person and do good things. We all know that popular saying that “A person is known by the company he keeps”. So people around us do influence our personality and the way we think.
But there can be differences in opinions being in the company of good people.This doesn’t mean, you should no more be a part of this.Your personality can never evolve when in your circle of friends,opinions didn’t vary.You should have the patience to hear other people’s opinions and thoughts.This will help you to have different perspectives to the same situation and could make your opinions more efficient and decisive, Hirav Shah, Concludes…